Spirituality & Health Magazine

2010 November-December

20 Questions for a Spiritually Compatible Relationship

We received an email from Naini Duggal, who is launching a new matchmaking website for spiritually-minded singles called MatchMySpirit.com. We logged in and were intrigued by the questions used to create a personal profile, so we asked how the site came about. Duggal wrote:

“My own path is self-realization fellowship (SRF), and I have been deeply practicing the teachings for a long time. Over the years, I have observed that most spiritual people find it very difficult to find a partner who shares the same vibration. So one day, after a deep meditation, I knew that I had to start this website. After a year of research with spiritual organizations, therapists, and psychologists, my partners and I developed these questions based on practical and spiritual principles. The site is free for now. Most proceeds will be going to children’s charities and orphanages. MatchMySpirit is a labor of love.”

Duggal graciously agreed to share the questions, which can be the basis for self-reflection, an intimate weekend with a new relationship, or, of course, to find the person of your dreams.

  1. How might you strengthen your moral standards before and after your relationship/marriage?
  2. What are your spiritual ideals and goals for the future?
  3. How would you change the world if you got a chance?
  4. Is your love for God greater than the love you would have for your partner?
  5. How important is it to you that your partner is on the same spiritual path as you?
  6. How important is it to you to serve others?
  7. How important is saving and investment to you?
  8. How important is it for you to help your partner’s family financially?
  9. How important is it for you to share financial responsibility with your partner?
  10. How important is it for you to have children?
  11. Would it bother you if your partner had children?
  12. Would you be open to adopting a child?
  13. Would you be open to attending parenting classes with your partner?
  14. Will you raise your children spiritually?
  15. How often would you socialize with your partner in a week?
  16. How often would you socialize on your own?
  17. How often would you socialize with your partner’s family?
  18. How important is marriage counseling to you?
  19. Would you read self-help books on relationships?
  20. Would you attend a self-help seminar?


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